Is This True Love?

What I find simply appalling is that a man posts an ad on craigslist for another man to rape his wife. Ok, well according to the New York Post (NYP), he advertised for a man to have sex with his wife using scare tactics. Although this is alarming and sickening, this is not at all surprising to me. As I look at the news and I see all manner of sick and twisted acts of depravity why would I or any of you be surprised at this?

Ok women imagine you are sleep in your bed and all of a sudden you wake up to find a man you don't know in your bedroom with a knife to your throat sexually assaulting you. That is bad enough. Imagine discovering that there is evidence that your husband hired someone to do it. Maybe he payed the man maybe he didn't. This is exactly what heppened in Kannapolis , NC. To make matters worse your two young children are at home even though they were allegedly unaware of what was going on. The kicker here is that while the man's wife was being raped, he was in the room watching. How sick is that?

Ok men think about this for a second. How could the woman you say you love, promised to protect and provide for, intentionally put in harms way? This was the case in NC. It was bad enough that the man you hired physically and emotionally harmed your wife, but what about your kids? If a man is low enough to respond and follow through on an ad to rape a man's wife then what would stop him from causing the same kind of harm to your kids? He may have done it then or maybe done it later. He was already in the house. What would stop him from coming back? This man obviously has no moral compass.

When a man and woman get married they each take on different roles. While a man and woman are equal partners they each have different roles. The role of a husband is to protect and provide. The husband is the captain of the ship. The wife's role is to support her husband. The wife is the co captain of the ship. If the captain of the ship is causing actions that bring harm to the ship what should the second in command do?

There is no possible way I would ever intentionally put any member of my family in harms way. Anyone who is in my inner circle will tell you if I call you a true friend I would take a bullet for you. Needless to say I can count those people on one hand and have fingers left over. It takes certain criteria to get into my inner circle. I would die for my wife and son before I let some harm come to them. Let me clarify this first. I am not saying wow I am just so excited to die for my wife and son if I had to, lest I sound like some kind of nut. I am simply saying I would defend my wife and son to the death. How many men can actually say that and mean it? Well that is another blog which will be coming soon!!!